Choices! Second chances!

Choices and Changes is our own self.

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Why do people do mistakes then asking for a second chance?
Why love hurt first before second chance comes after?
Why do we need to broke our heart to be happy?

I do believe that second chances are deserve of everyone, lahat ng tao may mga nagagawang kasalanan,at lahat may karapatan magbago at itama ung mga pagkakamali nila. Pero may mga bagay na kahit gustuhin man nating itama, hindi na mababago pa. Ang lahat ng nangyari na at nawala.

We live in this world not to be happy, kumplikado ang buhay, sabi nila, we need to enjoy our life para sumaya ka at maranasan mo lahat ng bagay sa mundo, maganda, pangit o kahit anu pa ‘to.. Pero bakit may mga taong hindi magawang ibukas ang pagkatao sa mga experiences na yon??

Honestly I am One of them. I am a kind of person who doesn’t want to try everything…

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Choices! Second chances!

Why do people do mistakes then asking for a second chance?
Why love hurt first before second chance comes after?
Why do we need to broke our heart to be happy?

I do believe that second chances are deserve of everyone, lahat ng tao may mga nagagawang kasalanan,at lahat may karapatan magbago at itama ung mga pagkakamali nila. Pero may mga bagay na kahit gustuhin man nating itama, hindi na mababago pa. Ang lahat ng nangyari na at nawala.

We live in this world not to be happy, kumplikado ang buhay, sabi nila, we need to enjoy our life para sumaya ka at maranasan mo lahat ng bagay sa mundo, maganda, pangit o kahit anu pa ‘to.. Pero bakit may mga taong hindi magawang ibukas ang pagkatao sa mga experiences na yon??

Honestly I am One of them. I am a kind of person who doesn’t want to try everything because I dont want to be hurt by experiences something I think who damage me. Kung baga nga, isa ako sa taong iniisip muna ung mangyayari bago mangyare.. because we don’t want to be failed..kase MASAKIT.

All people think that I am an old fashion lady because I can’t drink can’t smoke I hate talking about sex I hate dating I can’t travel and do what I really want, But As a person I want to be secured myself from something I know its give me shit and problem someday… I know I don’t have experience in everything but Its okay with me..I know naman kase na may tamang panahon para doon.

Pero paano pala kapag last day mo na to?? someone ask me.  I told him, Its okay! siguro nabuhay ako para dun. Hindi naman siguro dapat alam mo ang lahat bago ka mawala sa mundo? Hindi naman siguro dapat lahat alam mo para masabi mo na may kwenta ang pagtira mo sa mundong ito. Ako as an ordinary person Naniniwala na hindi lahat ng experience ay makakatulong sa tao para maging tama at maganda ang future mo.. at wala kang pagsisishan sa buhay mo.Lahat ng tao binigyan ng choices bago gawin ang isang bagay. So it means choice mo yun kung ano man ung naranasan mo at eto ung choice ko..

I know second chances not always happen to someone.. pero naniniwala ako kahit hindi tayo pagkalooban ng second chance ng mundo , o nang taong nasaktan mo o kahit na sino, kaya mo bigyan ng chance ang sarili mo sa pangalawang pagkakataon, . Dahil ang mali kahit gustuhin mong itama hindi mo na yun maitatama pa. Ang masama kahit gawin mo lahat ng maganda masama pa din sa iba.. Ang pagkakasala kahit magsisisi ka ng magsisis nagkasala kana. Ang panahon kahit habulin mo pa, nakalipas na.. Past na! Nagdaan na at hinding hindi mo na mababago pa. So kung second chance ang hihingin mo.. sa sarili mo ung kunin hindi sa ibang tao. Bakit???? dahil ikaw ang gumawa ng mga bagay na yun at ikaw at hindi sila ang may karapatan at kakayahan itama yun.

Give yourself a chance, A second, third or how many chances.. kase kung ang iba ibibigay o hindi sayo yun, nasasayo pa din kung paano mo dadalin ang buhay mo na ibinigay sayo..lahat may dahilan sa mundo lahat ng dinaanan mo makakatulong para sa pag takbo mo sa hinaharap mo. kung wala ng chance sa buhay mo magtiwala ka pa din.. Miracles always happen when we lease expect this.. ganyan ang buhay natin.. God is always gave us unnoticed miracle.. na hindi nating inakala na ito na pala yun.. Be happy with your life maybe not all people accepted who you are but always remember bago ka tanggapin ng ibang tao accept yourself  first…

Mahalin mo ang sarili mo ngunit hindi sa makasariling pamamaraanan. Mahalin mo ung binigay sayo ng maykapal. Ako hindi ko inalaagagan ang sarili ko nuon kaya hanggat maaari gusto ko ingatan na yung buhay ko ngayon, Naging pabaya ako nuon, mga pangarap at kagustuhan ko hindi ko nagawa pero naniniwala ako na kaya di dun ako dinala ng mga paa ko ay may dahilan. kung bakit nagsususulat ako kahit hindi nababasa ng ibang tao eto yung nagpapagaan sa mga dinadala ko. I dont have a perfect life but i am contented right now.. Hindi naman kase dapat nasayo lahat para maging masaya ka. Para ma enjoy mo yung buhay mo.. Ang pagsusulat ko ng kung anong tumatakbo sa isip ko ang nagpapagaan ng loob ko. Ang nagpapatibay sa pagkatao ko..

Marami akong chances na pinalampas. Opportunity na di gin-rab but I feel happy pa din naman hindi naman ako masyadong naghinayang … Alam ko naman kase na kapag para sakin ang isang bagay ibibigay sa akin yun.Baka nga wala pa ko sa tamang panahon..

Pero kung mawawala man ako ngayon alam ko ayoko pa pero kung yun yung nakatadhana para sakin I accept it with whole my heart.. Life is not easy to live but I always believe there’s always a reason why we experience it. I love my life even its not perfect. I love chances that come my way even though I didn’t have to grab it I love all people who crossed my path even if there’s a friend enemy or ordinary people. I love my family even if we’re not perfect and happy one, I love those person who believes in me. I love those people I loved before and hurt me and I love everything what I am doing since before I gave birth of my mother I love those people who always there for me, believe me and love me.. So when all the chances takes me out I’,ll be fine because once in my life I experience that. Even if  i’m the most KJ in our company the most “manang” in the world. The most ms. sunget for some stupid guys there. I love my life, myself and who I am. I love papa GOD who created me. So I am very thankful for who I am now .. all my floss , my good side my bad side my smiling eyes and even my heart that always listen to everyone.. I love the real me The Ms. Simple girl. I love my self.even when I am gone right now and God create me again someday I will asked him to create me and give me second chance to live my life again .becauseI want to be me still,,, The one Ms. Simple girl.

Hand pointing at a choices illustration on blue background.
Hand pointing at a choices illustration on blue background.

Hard to love hard to let go hard to move on

Loving someone is not easy..
Because everytime you fall you gonna hurt also..
Being inlove isthe best feeling in the world but when everythings not going to be alright letting go is the hardest part and moving on is very hard..

But everything is always fall in the right places so if youre not happy now always remember someday you will be happy.. because God always put us in our right places..
Hurt is part of life but hurt can help you to face everything in the near future..